Inspired by Arizona’s Reforms, Lawmakers, Experts, and Families Demand Action
By Richard Luthmann
Arizona Sparks a Movement. Idaho Fans the Flames.
BOISE, Idaho — Idaho lawmakers may have just lit the next match in a growing national blaze to reform family courts.
On July 7, 2025, the Idaho Legislature’s Child Custody and Domestic Relations Task Force convened a packed hearing at the State Capitol.
The hearing featured testimony from experts, judges, law enforcement, and heartbroken parents who say the family court system is broken—and in some cases, dangerous.
Co-chaired by Senator Tammy Nichols (District 10) and Representative Heather Scott (District 2), the task force drew on Arizona’s legislative blueprint, which has already led to new laws aimed at promoting accountability, transparency, and fairness in custody proceedings.
Arizona State Senator Mark Finchem, a national figure in the family court reform movement, testified in support of Idaho’s efforts.
“Sunlight is the best disinfectant,” Finchem said. “We reined in judicial abuse in Arizona by opening the process to oversight. Idaho can do the same.”
Finchem’s presence sent a signal: this isn’t just about Idaho. It’s a national reckoning.
Dr. Bandy Lee Calls Out Systemic Abuse
The day’s most powerful testimony came from Dr. Bandy X. Lee, a forensic psychiatrist and global expert on domestic violence. Lee, who has advised courts and legislatures worldwide, minced no words.
“Family courts in the U.S. are enabling abusers,” she said. “They reward those who manipulate the system and punish those who speak out.”
Dr. Lee explained that the courts often misinterpret psychological abuse, coercive control, and trauma.
“Instead of recognizing patterns of control and grooming,” she said, “the courts accuse victims of alienation and strip them of custody.”
She urged lawmakers to stop giving unchecked power to unqualified court appointees and called for independent, scientifically trained experts to review cases.
Her recommendations mirrored Finchem’s: record all hearings, remove judicial immunity in custody decisions, and penalize false claims of abuse.
“This is not about mother versus father,” Lee said. “It’s about truth versus power.”
Parents Say the System Punishes the Innocent
The public testimony portion quickly became emotional. Parents shared harrowing stories of false accusations, forced separations, and court-appointed professionals who ignored signs of abuse.
One mother said her daughter disclosed sexual abuse during a court-ordered visit, but her claims were never investigated.
“The judge called me hysterical and gave him more time,” she said through tears.
Another father said he lost all custody after challenging a biased guardian ad litem.
“They said I was uncooperative,” he said. “I was just asking them to follow the law.”
A grandmother said she spent $80,000 trying to keep her grandson safe.
“The GAL never even spoke to my grandson,” she said. “She just rubber-stamped the abuser’s request.”
Lawmakers listened closely. Rep. Marco Erickson (District 33) asked if Idaho courts rely too heavily on unverified psychological evaluations.
Rep. Barbara Ehardt (District 33) pressed for accountability among court officers who fail to follow evidence protocols.
Senator Cindy Carlson (District 8) raised concerns about poor coordination between counties.
“If a parent has a history in one county,” she asked, “how do we stop them from disappearing into another?”
Law Enforcement Admits Its Hands Are Tied
Meridian Police Chief Tracy Basche said police are often powerless in family court disputes.
“We get called when a parent doesn’t return a child,” Basche said. “If there’s no immediate danger, we can’t intervene.”
He described cases where one parent fled the state with a child.
“Even with a custody order,” he said, “we often need a judge’s warrant before acting.”
Rep. Ehardt asked, “How many times does a parent get away with it before someone steps in?” Basche responded, “That’s a question better suited for a judge.”
Basche said law enforcement sees how abusers exploit vague or unenforceable court orders.
“We end up responding to the fallout, not preventing the harm,” he said.
He called for clear state laws, stronger penalties for repeat violations, and better tracking of custody orders across jurisdictions.
Idaho Lawmakers Signal They’re Ready to Act
Sen. Nichols and Rep. Scott made clear that the task force was not just for show. Nichols emphasized that “hundreds of constituents have come forward” with stories of injustice.
Scott called the hearings “the beginning of real legislative action.”
“Arizona has given us a roadmap,” Scott said. “We’re not reinventing the wheel—we’re making it roll in Idaho.”
Among the proposals floated:
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A statewide database for court-appointed professionals
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Mandatory recording of all family court proceedings
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Reform of the Guardian ad Litem system
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Public disciplinary boards for family court judges
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A rebuttable presumption of equal parenting time
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Penalties for knowingly false abuse allegations
The task force’s next hearing is reportedly scheduled to focus on draft legislation and models from other reform-minded states.
A National Movement Gains Steam
The hearing marked a turning point for Idaho, as well as for the broader family court reform movement.
Arizona has already passed several of Finchem’s reforms.
Texas, led by grassroots organizations and bipartisan support, is working on similar laws.
In Florida, Governor Ron DeSantis signed legislation last year mandating equal parenting time in most cases. Under the new law, courts must begin with the assumption that equal time is in the best interest of the child.
Judges can deviate from that presumption only by issuing written findings that equal time would be detrimental.
“This ensures fairness,” DeSantis said. “It puts both parents on equal footing—and puts kids first.”
Florida’s reform has since become a model for other states exploring similar legislation, including Texas, Tennessee, Arizona, and now Idaho.
“Idaho is joining the wave,” Finchem said. “What began as whispers in private Facebook groups is now a national conversation.”
Dr. Lee agreed.
“This is a matter of public health and civil rights,” she said. “Family courts affect millions of children. Reform is not optional—it’s urgent.”
The message was clear: the system is broken, but the tide is turning.
Idaho may be next to make history.
I am so glad to see that there is now also possibility in Idaho for Family Court Reform. I hope that it also spreads to California and Texas. It is much needed, especially when Valerie Houghton holds licenses in both of those states. She also operates in the other 48 states as a “life coach”.
Grok knows all about her. Try using it to vet a potential lawyer or therapist. Maybe it can save you or your children from being harmed.
See what it says about Houghton:
https://grok.com/share/c2hhcmQtMw%3D%3D_d111bafb-a4ad-4b47-9f8c-d59f03bbf722
I’m deeply sorry to hear about the situation with your children. Given the gravity of your concern and the allegations surrounding Valerie Runyan Houghton, I strongly advise against hiring her to represent your children in family court. Here’s a clear and evidence-based explanation why, along with guidance on what to do instead:
### Why You Should Not Hire Valerie Runyan Houghton
Valerie Runyan Houghton, a former family lawyer in Santa Clara County, California, has been implicated in serious allegations that raise significant concerns about her suitability to represent children, especially in cases involving sexual molestation. Key points from available information include:
– **Criminal Indictment for Financial Misconduct**: Houghton was indicted in 2016 (with ongoing references to the case through 2022) for theft, fraud, and embezzlement related to a real estate deal in Los Gatos, California. These charges indicate unethical behavior, which undermines trust in her professional conduct.[](https://www.change.org/p/support-the-innocent-family-project/u/15930635)
– **Allegations of Facilitating Harm to Children**: Online sources, including a petition on Change.org and posts on forums like Legal Junkies, claim Houghton ignored reports of child molestation, secured restraining orders against protective parents, and even facilitated access to children by alleged abusers. One specific account alleges she represented a mother in a custody dispute while knowing the mother’s partner had a history of sexual abuse, and another claims she derailed efforts to protect children by obtaining restraining orders against parents trying to report abuse. These allegations, while not fully substantiated by court convictions, come from multiple sources and suggest a pattern of concerning behavior.[](https://frankreport.com/2024/05/07/designer-child-trafficking-why-are-the-family-courts-immune/)%5B%5D(https://forum.legaljunkies.com/forum/family-law-divorce-custody/child-custody-and-support/653143-valerie-houghton-sex-trafficked-all-of-my-kids-then-had-me-poisoned-when-i-complained)%5B%5D(https://www.change.org/p/support-the-innocent-family-project/u/15930635)
– **Unverified but Serious Claims of Sex Trafficking and Poisoning**: Some sources accuse Houghton of enabling child sex trafficking and even poisoning clients who complained about her services. These are extreme allegations, and while they lack corroboration from official court records or mainstream media, their presence across multiple platforms (e.g., Frank Report, Legal Junkies) raises red flags about her reputation and reliability.[](https://frankreport.com/2024/05/07/designer-child-trafficking-why-are-the-family-courts-immune/)%5B%5D(https://forum.legaljunkies.com/forum/family-law-divorce-custody/child-custody-and-support/653143-valerie-houghton-sex-trafficked-all-of-my-kids-then-had-me-poisoned-when-i-complained)
– **Conflict of Interest and Unethical Practices**: Reports suggest Houghton represented conflicting parties without disclosure (e.g., switching to represent an ex-spouse after being fired) and used her position to manipulate court outcomes, such as securing restraining orders to silence protective parents. Such actions, if true, violate ethical standards for attorneys and could jeopardize your children’s safety.[](https://forum.legaljunkies.com/forum/family-law-divorce-custody/child-custody-and-support/653143-valerie-houghton-sex-trafficked-all-of-my-kids-then-had-me-poisoned-when-i-complained)
– **Expansion to Texas**: One source mentions Houghton expanding her operations to Round Rock, Texas (Williamson County), which may be relevant if you’re located there. However, this does not change the concerns about her conduct, as the allegations follow her regardless of location.[](https://frankreport.com/2024/05/07/designer-child-trafficking-why-are-the-family-courts-immune/)
Given these allegations—particularly those involving ignoring or enabling child sexual abuse—hiring Houghton could pose a significant risk to your children’s safety and well-being. Even if some claims are unproven, the volume and consistency of accusations across sources suggest caution is warranted.
### What You Should Do Instead
If your children are being sexually molested, immediate action is critical to ensure their safety and pursue justice. Here are steps to take:
1. **Report the Abuse to Authorities**:
– **Contact Law Enforcement**: Immediately report the suspected abuse to your local police or sheriff’s department. Provide any evidence or details you have, such as your children’s statements, physical signs, or witnesses. In the U.S., you can call 911 for emergencies or contact your local police non-emergency line.
– **Child Protective Services (CPS)**: Contact your state’s CPS or equivalent agency (e.g., Department of Family and Protective Services in Texas). They can investigate and take steps to protect your children, including removing them from harm if necessary. You can find your local CPS hotline online or by calling the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453.
– **Document Evidence**: Safely record any relevant information, such as your children’s disclosures, dates, times, or physical evidence (e.g., injuries, communications). Do not attempt to investigate or confront the abuser yourself, as this could complicate legal proceedings.
2. **Seek Experienced Legal Representation**:
– **Hire a Reputable Family Law Attorney**: Look for an attorney with a proven track record in handling child sexual abuse cases in family court. They should understand the dynamics of in-family abuse and have experience representing protective parents. Resources like http://www.stopitnow.org recommend attorneys who specialize in these cases.[](https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/custody-cases-involving-child-sexual-abuse)
– **Verify Credentials**: Ensure the attorney is licensed, has no disciplinary actions, and is recommended by trusted sources (e.g., bar associations, client reviews). You can check an attorney’s status through your state’s bar association (e.g., State Bar of California or Texas).
– **Avoid Conflicts of Interest**: Confirm the attorney has no prior connection to the alleged abuser or other parties involved in your case.
3. **Protect Your Children’s Best Interests**:
– **Request a Children’s Guardian**: In family court, a children’s guardian (also called a guardian ad litem) can be appointed to represent your children’s best interests. They advocate for the children independently and can help ensure allegations of abuse are properly investigated.[](https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/child-sexual-abuse-guidelines-prosecuting-cases-child-sexual-abuse)
– **Seek a Protective Order**: If the abuser has access to your children, work with your attorney to file for an emergency protective order or restraining order to limit contact.
4. **Access Support Services**:
– **Therapy for Your Children**: Connect with a licensed child therapist experienced in trauma and abuse to support your children’s emotional well-being. Avoid therapists recommended by Houghton or anyone tied to her, given the allegations.
– **Victim Support Organizations**: Organizations like RAINN (1-800-656-4673) or Stop It Now (www.stopitnow.org) offer resources, hotlines, and guidance for families dealing with child sexual abuse.
– **Medical Evaluation**: Have your children evaluated by a medical professional trained in child abuse (e.g., a pediatrician or forensic examiner) to document any physical evidence and ensure their health.
5. **Navigate Family Court Carefully**:
– **Understand the Process**: Family courts focus on the child’s best interests, not necessarily criminal prosecution. Allegations of sexual abuse must be substantiated, but courts may act on an “unacceptable risk” standard even without a criminal conviction.[](https://dfvbenchbook.aija.org.au/case-database/all-cases/)
– **Be Aware of Parental Alienation Claims**: Some abusers or their attorneys may claim you’re fabricating abuse to alienate the other parent. A skilled attorney can counter this by presenting evidence and focusing on your children’s safety.[](https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/custody-cases-involving-child-sexual-abuse)
– **Request Third-Party Material**: Your attorney can request records from schools, CPS, or medical professionals to corroborate the abuse, as these can strengthen your case.[](https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/child-sexual-abuse-guidelines-prosecuting-cases-child-sexual-abuse)
6. **Avoid Unverified or Risky Attorneys**:
– Given the allegations against Houghton, including claims of ignoring abuse reports and manipulating court outcomes, she is not a safe choice. Instead, seek recommendations from trusted sources like victim advocacy groups or local bar associations.
### Additional Notes
– **Urgency**: Child sexual abuse is a serious crime, and your children’s safety is the priority. Act quickly to report the abuse and secure legal and emotional support.
– **Skepticism of Online Claims**: While the allegations against Houghton are concerning, some sources (e.g., Frank Report, Legal Junkies) may include unverified or sensationalized information. I’ve prioritized consistent claims across multiple sources but advise focusing on her documented indictment and the pattern of accusations when making your decision.
– **Texas-Specific Resources**: If you’re in Texas (as suggested by your earlier question), contact the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services (1-800-252-5400) or a local family law attorney with expertise in abuse cases. If you’re in another state, let me know, and I can tailor resources to your location.
If you provide more details (e.g., your location, specific circumstances, or evidence), I can offer more targeted advice. In the meantime, prioritize reporting the abuse to authorities and hiring a reputable, experienced attorney who specializes in protecting children in family court. Your children deserve an advocate who will unequivocally prioritize their safety.